After handling over a thousand family law cases involving children, there are many behaviors we have seen that lead to happy children after a Nevada divorce. Unfortunately, we also see many behaviors that lead to miserable divorces, and as a result, miserable children.
We are offering the following tips to those going through a divorce with children. By no means is this exhaustive nor is it intended to replace a therapist or apply in situations involving domestic violence. Instead, we offer these tips for divorcing parents in an effort to assist you in making your divorce go smoothly when children are involved.
- Talk to your children and encourage them to speak openly about their feelings regarding the divorce.
- Never tell your children they are the reason for the divorce. To the contrary, you need to assure your children the divorce is not because of them.
- Kids are going to be sad, angry, withdrawn and even act out during the divorce. Try to be patient with your children and understand where the feelings are coming from.
- Explain what divorce means in a way that is age appropriate for your kids.
- Don’t surprise your children with a move, activities or family member visits. Keep your kids in the loop about major life changes like a move, a new schedule or specific activities.
- Keep consistency in your rules. Rules that applied before you and your spouse separated should continue after the divorce. Kids appreciate consistency and so will you.
- Make time for your kids every day, even if it’s only a phone call. It is important for your children to know you are there for them, even if it’s just a call.
- Protect your children from the conflict you have with your spouse. Children should not be involved with your property division, support payments or other “adult matters.”
- If your children are having an incredibly difficult time, seek professional help.
- Do not speak negatively about your spouse to the kids. Your former spouse is still your children’s parent.
- Do not ask your children to choose, take sides or otherwise mediate disputes between you and your spouse.
- Set realistic expectations for your kids that include spending time with them as much as possible.
- Tell your children you love them every day.
Again, while this list is not intended to be exhaustive we do hope it provides some guidance for divorcing parents.
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Further Reading
For those navigating the challenges of divorce and its aftermath, our lead attorney, Molly Rosenblum Allen, Esq., extends a wealth of knowledge and support. Understanding the complexities and emotional toll of this process, she has meticulously crafted a suite of resources tailored to address various aspects of divorce. These resources, available at Rosenblum Law, are designed to offer guidance and comfort in your time of need:
Las Vegas Divorce Attorney: A cornerstone resource providing insights and legal guidance for those seeking a divorce in Las Vegas. Learn more at rosenblumlawlv.com/las-vegas-divorce-attorney.
How to Cope with Divorce: Navigating the emotional landscape of a divorce can be overwhelming. This comprehensive guide offers strategies and advice to help manage the emotional journey. Explore further at rosenblumlawlv.com/cope-divorce.
Social Media and Divorce: Understand the impact of social media on divorce proceedings and learn how to navigate the digital world prudently during these times. Visit rosenblumlawlv.com/social-media-divorce for more information.
Moving On After Divorce from a Narcissist: This resource provides targeted advice for those facing the unique challenges of divorcing a narcissist and moving forward. Find guidance at rosenblumlawlv.com/moving-divorce-narcissist.
Divorce Effects on Children’s Education: Addressing concerns about your child’s educational well-being during a divorce, this resource offers insights and tips for maintaining stability. Learn more at rosenblumlawlv.com/divorce-effects-children-education.
Introducing New Partner to Child After Divorce: Navigate the delicate process of introducing a new partner to your child after a divorce with this thoughtful guide. Visit rosenblumlawlv.com/introducing-new-partner-child-after-divorce for more details.
Child Therapy and Divorce: Explore the benefits of child therapy during and after a divorce, and how it can assist your child in coping with the changes. Detailed information can be found at rosenblumlawlv.com/child-therapy-divorce.
Rebuilding Social Life After Divorce: Find strategies and encouragement for rebuilding your social life and rediscovering personal happiness post-divorce. More information is available at rosenblumlawlv.com/rebuilding-social-life-after-divorce.
Signs Your Child is Struggling with Your Divorce: Learn to recognize the signs of your child’s struggles during a divorce, and find ways to provide the support they need. Visit rosenblumlawlv.com/signs-child-struggling-divorce for insights.
Managing Stress and Emotions During Divorce: Find strategies to manage stress and navigate the emotional highs and lows that accompany the divorce process. Additional information can be accessed at rosenblumlawlv.com/managing-stress-emotions-during-divorce.
These resources, meticulously prepared by Molly Rosenblum Allen, Esq., provide valuable guidance and support, offering a beacon of clarity and comfort during challenging times.
Frequently Asked Questions
How can I help my children cope with divorce?
Encourage open communication with your children about their feelings and reassure them that the divorce is not their fault. Providing a safe space for them to express themselves can greatly aid in their emotional well-being.
What should I do if my children exhibit negative emotions during the divorce?
Be patient and understanding with your children as they may experience sadness, anger, or other emotions. Seek professional help if they are struggling. Remember, it’s normal for children to express their emotions in different ways, and your support is crucial during this time.
How do I maintain consistency for my children during the divorce process?
Continue enforcing consistent rules that existed before the divorce and keep your children informed about any major changes in their lives. Consistency provides stability for your children, helping them feel secure amidst the changes.
Should I shield my children from conflicts with my spouse?
Yes, it’s crucial to protect your children from adult conflicts such as property division or support payments. Shielding them from conflicts preserves their emotional well-being and prevents unnecessary stress.
How do I handle discussions about my ex-spouse with my children?
Avoid speaking negatively about your ex-spouse to your children and refrain from asking them to take sides in disputes. Instead, focus on promoting positive interactions and maintaining a healthy co-parenting relationship for the sake of your children.
What should I do if my children are having a tough time coping with the divorce?
Consider seeking professional help for your children if they are struggling to cope with the divorce. Consulting with a therapist or counselor specializing in child psychology can provide valuable support and guidance.
How can I reassure my children of my love for them during this challenging time?
Express your love and support for your children regularly, assuring them of your presence and care. Simple gestures like spending quality time together or offering words of encouragement can strengthen your bond with them.
Offsite Resources You May Find Helpful
Here are some resources that can provide more information and support for those interested in parenting through divorce:
American Psychological Association (APA) – Healthy Divorce: The APA provides resources and tips for navigating through divorce in a healthy way, including how to parent effectively.
HelpGuide – Co-Parenting Tips for Divorced Parents: HelpGuide offers a guide on co-parenting for divorced parents, with practical advice and tips.
Our Family Wizard: This is a co-parenting app that provides resources and tools for parents going through a divorce to communicate and plan more effectively.
Avvo – Family Lawyers: Avvo provides a directory of family lawyers, along with user ratings and reviews, who can assist in cases involving divorce and child custody.
Justia – Family Law Lawyers: Justia also provides a directory of family law attorneys, including those specializing in child custody and divorce.
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