As family law attorneys, we can promise you that every single case we handle is unique because every family is unique. What might work for a spousal support award in one case may not work in another. Likewise, a custody schedule for one family may not be the best for the children of another family. Despite the uniqueness of each case, there are things you can do as a family law client to get the most from your family attorney throughout the litigation process.
Me The Truth – About Everything
You need to tell me the "good, bad, and the ugly". Do not keep secrets hoping that I will not find out, or worse, that the opposing attorney will not find out. The opposing attorney will utilize every bit of damaging information against you and in the worst possible light.
need to know any potentially damaging evidence or facts beforehand so that we
may be able to defend you in the courtroom. There is nothing worse than finding
out something important while we are standing in front of the judge – it makes
both of us look bad. Knowing “the bad” allows us to prepare a response before
we are in front of a judge and gives us time to gather evidence to support your
do not think that there is something that is so terrible that we have never heard
it before. Assume that everything is important and tell me.
Keep Your Appointments
lawyer offices operate on the "appointment method" as do most doctor
offices. We may be up against deadlines and a last minute cancellation in your
appointment with us could leave us without being fully prepared for court or
without time to gain a critical piece of evidence.
Also, our schedule fills quickly – we are a litigation firm and we are in court almost every day. Keeping your appointments with us allows us to set aside time specifically for you and your needs. If you cancel, it could be days or weeks before we can reschedule your appointment.
We certainly understand emergencies, and life, happens and it is not always possible to keep an appointment. If this happens, we ask that you use an alternative form of communication such as email, text or phone to discuss your case.
Be Patient with us Returning your Phone Calls and Emails
a rule, I am not solely in control of my own schedule. I am often in court, at
depositions, preparing for trial, at a required continuing
legal education seminar, in a Settlement Conference or meeting with
new or current clients. Usually, I am often subject to the Court's calendar, or
other lawyer's hearing settings.
If you call and I am not available, make a phone appointment with me at that time. It is better than simply leaving me a message to return your calls. This way you and I will have a set time to talk about your case and you will not be waiting for me to call you back.
I do have front office staff including Claire, Deja and John but they cannot give legal advice. They can however, relay a message to me. The only way for that to be effective is for you to leave a specific and detailed message. They can also schedule a phone appointment.
Listen to your divorce attorney, not your Friends or
is very tempting to listen to family and friends about how to handle your case,
usually a family member or friend has been through a divorce once or twice. I’d
tell you, listen to your lawyer –I have handled thousands of cases.
Your family and friends mean well and their
motives may be good, but they are not lawyers. Often times, their advice may be
what they think is best for you but not necessarily what is best for your case.
If a family member or friend offers advice, thank them and listen to them, but
if you and I haven’t discussed a
recommended course of action, it is best to follow up with me before following
a family member or friend’s advice.
Pay your Attorneys Fees
family laws fees are VERY competitive with the local standard. It should be understood from
the beginning that you will pay as outlined in your contract. If your case is
important to you, then you should make sure your lawyer is paid. Your case
should be a priority to you and we expect you to take it seriously. If you are
not paying attention to paying your bill, that is a signal to the lawyer that
you do not take this matter seriously.
I will ask for your spouse or ex-spouse to pay your attorneys fees in most cases,
but experience has taught us that the likelihood of collecting fees from your
spouse or ex-spouse is not particularly good. Therefore, you will be
responsible for the fees which are incurred by this office on your behalf. If payment
is received from your spouse or ex-spouse, then it will be applied to your
outstanding balance and the difference will be refunded to you.
We hope this article has been helpful to explain how you can get the most from your family law attorney. If you or someone you know needs a family law attorney, call us today at (702) 433-2889 or fill out our on-line form. We can help.